Discharge often happens fast. A case manager mentions it in the morning, and by afternoon your parent is in a wheelchair at the curb. The decisions made in those few hours, like going home, going to rehab, or what help is set up, shape the next several weeks. Ask these questions early, ideally the day your parent is admitted.
Ask: is my parent an inpatient or under observation?
This is the single most important question. A parent can spend nights in a hospital bed and still be an outpatient “under observation.” Observation days don’t count toward the three inpatient days Original Medicare requires before it will cover a skilled nursing facility stay. If your parent is under observation for more than 24 hours, the hospital must give you a Medicare Outpatient Observation Notice (MOON) explaining this. Many Medicare Advantage plans waive the three-day rule, so check your parent’s plan. Our Medicare rehab rules guide explains it in detail.
Read the “Important Message from Medicare”
Inpatients on Medicare get a notice called the Important Message from Medicare about their discharge rights, once near admission and again shortly before discharge. It lists the phone number for the independent reviewer (the Beneficiary and Family Centered Care Quality Improvement Organization) that handles discharge appeals.
If you think discharge is too soon, appeal
- Call the number on the Important Message from Medicare no later than midnight of the planned discharge day.
- Your parent can stay in the hospital while the reviewer decides, usually without paying for those extra days.
- The hospital must give you a detailed notice explaining why it thinks your parent is ready to leave.
- The reviewer usually decides within a day or two.
- Medicare Advantage members follow the same fast appeal process.
Questions for the case manager
- Where is my parent going next: home, home with home health, a rehab facility, or a nursing home?
- If rehab, which facilities have a bed, and which accept my parent's insurance? Can we see the list and choose?
- Has therapy evaluated whether my parent can safely climb stairs, use the bathroom and get in and out of bed?
- What new medications were started or stopped? Can we get a printed list?
- Who orders equipment like a walker, shower chair or hospital bed, and when will it arrive?
- Who do we call with questions after 5 p.m. or on weekends?
- When is the follow-up appointment, and with whom?
Set up home before your parent arrives
Fill prescriptions on the way home. Clear a path from the door to the bed and bathroom. Arrange someone to stay the first night if possible. If Medicare home health was ordered, expect a call from the agency within a day or two; call the hospital if you don’t hear back. For non-medical help, see our guide to choosing home care and In-Home Care vs. Home Health Care.
General information, not medical or legal advice. Confirm your parent’s coverage with Medicare (1-800-633-4227) or their plan. Free counseling: Illinois SHIP, 1-800-252-8966.
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FAQ
Can the hospital make my parent leave before we have a plan?
The hospital must plan a safe discharge. If you disagree with the timing, you can appeal using the number on the Important Message from Medicare before midnight of the discharge day.
Does Medicare pay for rehab after a hospital stay?
Original Medicare covers skilled nursing facility care after a qualifying inpatient stay of at least three days, if your parent needs daily skilled care. Days under observation don’t count. Medicare Advantage rules vary by plan.
What is a MOON?
The Medicare Outpatient Observation Notice tells your parent they’re an outpatient under observation and explains how that affects costs and rehab coverage.
Who is the case manager?
A nurse or social worker at the hospital who coordinates discharge. Ask for their name and direct number on day one.
General information, not medical or legal advice. Confirm your parent’s coverage with Medicare (1-800-633-4227) or their plan. Free counseling: Illinois SHIP, 1-800-252-8966.